I love surprises. I love things that have been creatively thought out and things that have many different sides. Gifts, services, or words that span multiple moments are always cherished. I also happen love my fiancee. It was the combination of these factors that led me to try and find an act of love that would make my fiancee feel really appreciated. The thought of multiple gifts came to mind, and the idea of a valentine marathon was born. In some of the great romance novels we find suitors who are relentless in their pursuit of a love, wooing them with many gifts, visits, and the like. While my fiancee already shares a mutual love, it is a nice way of showing how much I care.
The result is a plan: 22 days of Valentines. Why 22? I'll answer that at the end. the important part is coming up with a solid list of 22 feasible tasks or tokens that will communicate something special. While these are all tailored to his particular likes, the basic ideas behind them can be used for anyone with a little tweaking. Some are grander than others; few cost any money, and all are within a tight budget. They can be borrowed for little touches of care here and there throughout the year. A group of them could be given at the same time for a bigger event. I think that with a little bit of creative thought about what you already have as well as a knowledge of what your beau likes, these can help breathe a little fresh air into your ideas for showing love.
The blog series will begin on
January 24th, with one a day until February 14th (that's 22 days). I hope you'll join me in this adventure and in my first blog series.
Oh, and I suppose you're wondering about the 22. Well, this unrelated to Valentine's Day, but my beau happens to be turning 22 this January. I had already been planning some sort of valentine marathon when I realized that by tweaking the starting time just a little bit, it would be almost 22 days between his birthday and Valentine's Day, so I'm going to pretend that they do match up and he'll get a few extra gifts beforehand. I'm sure he won't mind.
Au revoir,
- Mei-Lyn